Commercialism or Compassion?

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Christmas DinnerMy Mom always made the holidays special.  We made flower baskets to hang on our neighbors’ doors for May Day.  Easter was a big day of hidden eggs and lots of chocolate.  Whether Halloween, Valentines Day, or New Years, my Mom made a big deal about them and created family rituals that created great childhood memories that cannot be clouded out.

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The granddaddy of all holidays was Christmas.  There were cookies and treats, music and decorations, and lots of gift-giving (receiving?) anticipation.  We always went out and cut our own tree.  The family decorating party was filled with love and Rockwellian joy.  Christmas music became the soundtrack of our lives for a month.  And for the days surrounding December 25th, we drove back and forth across the Portland Metro area visiting family and friends.

http://tukani.cz/?pimono=opciones-financieras-en-excel&b5f=dc Listening to The Cinnamon Bear story on KXL/1190am was a big part of our lives between Thanksgiving and Christmas.  Often we would find time to visit the Cinnamon Bear at the Lipman’s Department store.  Then, of course, we’d make a big deal around the visit to Santa Clause at Meier & Frank’s!

When I was a child, I spoke and thought and reasoned as a child. But when I grew up, I put away childish things”

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http://sigurfreyr.com/?tyxe=ebook-trading-binario&3d4=38 Christmas is different for me now.  Fortunately it’s not all about me and what I get.  Now, more than ever, I understand the reason for the season.  But it is more than that.

I would like to repeat all the rituals that made Christmas fun.  I would like to share the joy I experienced as a kid.  The cookies and treats, the Christmas Morning excitement, and the Santa Claus mythology.  In many ways, I’d like to repeat these experiences for my kids.  But I can’t – or I should say, I don’t want to.

Instead, I want to bring the simplicity that surrounds Thanksgiving back into the Christmas holiday.  I’m tired of the commercialism; I’m tired of the crass marketing; and I’m tired of myths of Santa Claus and the greed and misnomers he represents.  I see too many people stressed and too many expectations that people try to meet.  For me, it isn’t worth financial and emotional debt.

Jesus came to show us God’s true character.  He is about giving, not receiving.  He stands for grace and forgiveness, not whether we’ve been “naughty or nice.”  The love of God far outshines the jolly of Old St. Nick.  This is what I want to teach my children.  This is what I want to share with those around me.  I want them to experience God’s love, in real, practical ways.  I want them to experience God – not rituals.

It is a difficult tightrope one walks when deciding to put Christ back into Christmas. I don’t want to be perceived as some right-wing, religious fundamentalist.  I don’t intend to be a kill-joy.  I just want the simplicity of an unselfish, commercial-free Christmas season.

The last thing I want to do is emulate Scrooge.  To me, Dickens was trying to emulate the true spirit of Christmas through Scrooge’s conversion and kindness to the Cratchit family.  But somehow we remember the pre-dream Scrooge and not the post-dream kindness he came to appreciate.  What if we had similar conversions and replaced the commercialism with compassion?

This year, in our family gift-giving encounters, we have asked for some simple gifts.  Instead of exchanging gift-cards for big-box retailers – for stuff we don’t need.  We’ve asked our families to buy gifts for less fortunate World Citizens, in honor of the love they have for us.

In short, this is our Christmas list:

There are plenty of organizations out there.  One can support local, regional, national, or global organizations.  It really doesn’t matter.  Either way, let’s replace commercialism with compassion.

Comments

  1. Brent Logan says:

    My in-laws are in sync with you. Ordinarily, they get gift certificates for all their grandchildren. This year, they’re going to spend the same amount, but it’s going in a different direction. The grandkids get to choose where the money goes with the ADRA catalog. Should be a fun Christmas. 🙂

  2. gwalter says:

    @memathews Thanks for the additional resources. I totally agree, we don’t have to go clear around the world to share and have compassion. I used to be a regular contributor to Union Gospel Mission. As a former street-medic, I saw the good things they did for those on the streets of PDX.

    @blogan Are you being sarcastic in your last statement, or true? Hard to tell from this end. @wifenkids and I had a deep conversation tonight about the balance between being a killjoy and helping grandparents join us in this parenting journey. It can be a tough balancing act.

    Tonight, again, we were listening to Abigail Stewart’s commentary on Valley Forge. She was 11 years old when she wrote about the revolutionary army’s winter there. Her description of soldiers without shoes, socks, pants, or coats breaks my heart every time I hear it. It is part of what inspired this post.

  3. Brent Logan says:

    Yeah, as soon as I pressed submit, I realized the last line and smilie could be interpreted as sarcastic instead of happy. Oops! I intended the happy meaning.

    Could I interest you in implementing the Filosofo Comments Preview plugin? 😉

  4. gwalter says:

    @blogan – thanks for the clarification.

    I’d love to implement all kinds of plugins, if I could, but those of us using WordPress.com don’t have that option. It took me three weeks to figure that out when I first started this blog – but I read a lot of help posts that I wouldn’t ordinarily read and I learned a lot about WordPress!

    1. kmcdade says:

      This is interesting — most people talk about eschewing the mainstream gifts and then emphasizing the cookies, treats, traditions, etc. But you seem to be suggesting that that stuff needs to go, too? Or is it just that we need to simplify, and not be worrying about baking 25 different kinds of cookies that need to be packaged up and given to everyone in our lives?

  5. John W. says:

    Well said, and I could not agree more!!

  6. Marc says:

    Those were very touching and influencial words. I don’t know who you are or if you will read this, but if you do, thank you. Thank you for pointing my mind towards the true, right direction, in which we should all be pointing. All too often we think this compasionate way for a little while, and soon turn around to selfish thinking or wanting. Compassion does truely give strength, and Jesus truely is the redeemer of that compassion.

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